December 7, 2025
You say “stay,” and your dog holds it for about two seconds.
You say “place,” and they stay…until you move.
You get a down, but not a down-stay.
Sound familiar? You don’t have a command problem. You have a duration problem.
Too many owners assume that once a dog knows a behavior, it’ll stick. But dogs don’t think like that.
Holding a position is a totally different skill than getting into it.
Sit is one behavior. Sit-stay is another one entirely.
And most people never actually train the second one.
Here are the most common causes I see:
The dog was never taught to stay, just to sit
The reward came too early or too often
The release word is inconsistent or absent
The dog is corrected for breaking, but never set up to succeed
The handler moves too fast between steps
Clarity comes first
When I teach sit, down, or place, I’m already layering in small amounts of time from the beginning. I don’t just mark and reward instantly, I let them hold the position first.
Reward in position
Reinforce while the dog holds the behavior. Don’t always lure them out of it. This builds muscle memory.
Introduce pressure early
Walk around them. Drop a toy. Open the front door. Start layering distractions when the behavior is solid.
Use release cues
“Free” means they’re free to move. Until then, the position holds no matter what. This gives the dog a clear start and stop.
Be consistent with corrections
If your dog breaks early, calmly reset them. Don’t just repeat the command, walk them back into it. Show them that quitting early won’t work.
Dogs that can hold position aren’t just “obedient.” They’re regulated.
They’ve learned how to control themselves when everything around them says “go.”
That’s huge. That’s what makes a dog reliable in the real world.
Visitors walk in? Dog stays down.
You need to prep dinner? Dog stays in place.
Training session wraps? Dog decompresses without pacing.
That kind of reliability isn’t flashy, but it’s life-changing.
And it doesn’t come from more engagement. It comes from better expectations.
Stop thinking that duration will “just happen” with time. It won’t.
It needs to be taught on purpose, with structure, and with follow-through.
Because the dog that can stay calm and focused over time?
That’s the dog who gets freedom.